~jr-the-frog@TTBP



12 october 2023

Mastodon Thoughts

I've been thinking a lot about being on Mastodon. No real conclusions following, just dumping.

I originally tried 2022 but the instances I joined were boring and mid-moderated. Boring sounds mean, but I do like to have some interesting conversations or fun ones from time to time. If I just want to post with no interation, there are quite a few different venues that work better.

2023 seems to be better. I am on solarpunk.moe. There are a few people there I get along with. I like the moderation. I don't hate anyone. but there are a lot of people not in my age group and just nicely shitpost. I feel like I'm not vibing 100% and am looking for alteratives. I can still follow/interact with the people I like.

Sometimes I wonder if I am using/looking for the wrong thing in Mastodon. Or using Mastodon to replace other things. I like the conversations, news, microbites of information, art. I care less for the miniquips. A part of my local to federated feed feels like LOL RANDOM. And I'm just speed scrolling past it.

And now that I'm thinking about it... peak Twitter you followed people and if you just focus on certain things you don't get the LOL RANDOM.

So I want more control and the design of Mastodon seems to be less feed control unless I just rss feed only the folk I like and go about Mastadon this way. In fact I just might.

So I guess I do have a conclusion on this.



08 october 2023

Its been awhile.

I've been spending a lot of time on Mastodon (https://solarpunk.moe/@jr_the_frog). Feel free to follow me on it.

I'm on letterboxd (https://letterboxd.com/jr_the_frog/) now and watch primarily short films. Feel free to add me!

Currently its Zinetober. I've been making some minizines. Two random thought ones. Two about the short films I've been watching.

I sent a zine I had laying around to a distro. Curious to see how long it will take to be set up.

I want to go to some zine fests the fall, but I guess it will depend on how I am feeling...

Nothing deep I guess...

Maybe I'll do a favorite films list soon...



23 september 2023

Brain Dump Prompts for October 2023

  1. What are your biggest goals for the month? Finish a zine, go on trips, touch grass, remain organized managing the house, try not to be too depressed.

  2. Can you think of a stressful task in your life that you’re avoiding? Driving myself more? I'm not sure if its something I should do or not, due to personal issues.

  3. What will truly make you happy? Some nice weekend trips. Going to the Asian market. Going to the farmers market. Going to the petting zoo. Maybe a zine fest?

  4. Is there someone you need to get back to? I just did. Someone sent me a message in instagram in April, oops! That said I haven't been using instagram that much, so 🤷‍♂️

  5. Where do you want to go on your next vacation? The beach but this will probably be 2024.

  6. How are you generally feeling at the moment? Actually ok. Its Friday, my head is hurting less than it has been most of the month.

  7. Are you devoting enough time for self care? Maybe? I'm trying to think of self care things I need to do? I guess I could do more physical activity. Its been going down since summer ended and I stopped going to the beach.

  8. Where do you want to be a year from now? I want to be more involved in zine culture. I want to be closer to paying off the house. I want to be riding a bike regularly.

  9. Do you have any regrets? If so, how can you move forward? I don't know. I wish I had made more zines but I spent a lot of time at the beach so I don't 100% regret it. I guess a better balance.

  10. What hobbies are you most interested in and why? I like to swim and make zines. I want to get into cycling, so hoping this month to test an adult trike. I can't ride a regular bicycle.

  11. Do you have any work projects you want to start? No.

  12. Did you go through a recent life change? How did it affect you? I can feel fall. My headaches get worse. I love the cool temperatures and fall folliage but I dislike my body hurting.

  13. When was the last time you cleared your inbox? Never. Honestly thinking about moving everything to protonmail.

  14. Are there any projects you need to get done at home? Sooo many. I finally got Remember the Milk and input the most pressing ones there. They are slowly getting done.

  15. What do you need to let go of? Ideas of productivity without flexibility.

  16. How can you best organize your upcoming appointments? I use a calendar app on my phone.

  17. What does your daily routine look like? Do you need to tweak anything? I'm not even sure what to tweak. I get ready for work, work, eat, bathroom breaks, then after I do something fun if I can or sleep. I would like to be able to go out and do more things after work, but we'll see.

  18. Have you congratulated yourself for achievements lately? I celebrate the small things most daily. But I don't take a larger look. Maybe I should.

  19. Do you need to start planning a bigger event, like a wedding or housewarming party? Not really. The closest are trips I want to go on.

  20. Are you spending enough time offline? How can you can create more of a balance? Honestly I am spending more time to get podcasts, watch short film, connect with the zine and

Prompts from Nunzia Dreams - https://nunziadreams.com/clear-your-mind-brain-dump/



03 august 2023

I felt sad today. To the point where I google a list of things to cheer me up. And reading that cheered me up? I have no clue what is going on with my brain somedays.

I am ok now.



26 july 2023

7/24/23 - Feeling peaceful from the beach still. I'm thinking about moving there but it would take years if I do it responsibly. My mental health has been bad for years. I'm fortunate and don't enjoy it, which at least is a bit of a waste.

I'm listening to CL Polk's Witchmark as an audiobook (https://app.thestorygraph.com/books/a8d4efa7-9b72-49d3-bc5c-d3c352b171f0). I'm enjoying my time with it. Its a genre I generally don't bother with, urban mystery fantasy romance. This one is slow and cozy. I'm not sure why I'm ok with this one. Its a tad cheesy but not overwhelmingly so.

Another cranky day. I really thought about my irritability. My anxiety. I'm going to up my meds (doctor ok'd) and see if that helps.

I'm also trying to be ok with my cranky self. That I can take care of my cranky self. This seems to help.

7/25/23 - Sunny this morning, rainy at night.

I hate public bathrooms. I hate public bathrooms. I hate public bathrooms.

Just read Red Jellies by Lina Rather (https://giganotosaurus.org/2020/02/01/thin-red-jellies/). Its about a young couple sharing a body and the struggles it brings. I really liked it, but its not a happy story.

7/26/23 - Warm, not has humid as the previous few weeks. Okish outside. Although my spouse and I tried to go to a trail after work. We quickly left due to mosquitos and lack of repellent. Hopefully we will remember that for next time.

I did a bookshelf purge. I am getitng rid of most of my books. I'm looking at them but don't feel much emotional attachment. I will be putting them in little free libraries. There are a ton around and the books I put in tend to go fast, probably as they are nicer quality.

That said I do have a few books incoming. Not enough to fill my shelf but I appreciate the room.

Before that, I am halfway through Some Desperate Glory by Emily Tesh with Sena Bryer (Narrator). I am listening to the audiobook and Bryer does a phenominal job. Tesh's previous novella dualogy (Greenhollow) was lovely. While I expected to have a solid time with this novel, I didn't not expect it to rip my heart out. If it keeps going like this, will probably be a top of the year.

"A thrillingly told queer space opera about the wreckage of war, the family you find, and who you must become when every choice is stripped from you, Some Desperate Glory is Astounding Award Winner and Crawford Award Finalist Emily Tesh’s highly anticipated debut novel."

Link: https://app.thestorygraph.com/books/d3554318-b227-4225-89c4-d93412272ec6

Incoming books:

1) The Dragon of Ynys by Minerva Cerridwen - Every time something goes missing from the village, Sir Violet makes his way to the dragon's cave and negotiates the item's return. It's annoying, but at least the dragon is polite.

But when the dragon hoards a person, that's a step too far. Sir Violet storms off to the mountainside to escort the baker home, only to find a more complex mystery-a quest that leads him far beyond the cave. Accompanied by the missing baker's wife and the dragon himself, the dutiful village knight embarks on his greatest adventure yet.

The Dragon of Ynys is an inclusive fairy tale for all ages.

Link: https://app.thestorygraph.com/books/0085ebc5-e89a-4e93-a72e-79f3c2815baa

2) Escaping Exodus #1 by Nicky Drayden - Earth is a distant memory. Habitable extrasolar planets are still out of reach. For generations, humanity has been clinging to survival by establishing colonies within enormous vacuum-breathing space beasts and mining their resources to the point of depletion. Rash, dreamy, and unconventional, Seske Kaleigh should be preparing for her future role as clan leader, but her people have just culled their latest beast, and she’s eager to find the cause of the violent tremors plaguing their new home. Defying social barriers, Seske teams up with her best friend, a beast worker, and ventures into restricted areas for answers to end the mounting fear and rumors. Instead, they discover grim truths about the price of life in the void. Then, Seske is unexpectedly thrust into the role of clan matriarch, responsible for thousands of lives in a harsh universe where a single mistake can be fatal. Her claim to the throne is challenged by a rival determined to overthrow her and take control—her intelligent, cunning, and confident sister. Seske may not be a born leader like her sister, yet her unorthodox outlook and incorruptible idealism may be what the clan needs to save themselves and their world.

Link: https://app.thestorygraph.com/books/6b6e3065-2add-4e1b-8509-ed0bf571251a

3) Skyward Inn by Aliya Whiteley - A thoughtful, literary novel about conflict, identity and community, after Earth makes contact with the seemingly harmless planet Qita. A fresh new perspective in speculative fiction from critically-acclaimed writer Aliya Whiteley.

Drink down the brew and dream of a better Earth.

Skyward Inn, within the high walls of the Western Protectorate, is a place of safety, where people come together to tell stories of the time before the war with Qita.

But safety from what? Qita surrendered without complaint when Earth invaded; Innkeepers Jem and Isley, veterans from either side, have regrets but few scars.

Their peace is disturbed when a visitor known to Isley comes to the Inn asking for help, bringing reminders of an unnerving past and triggering an uncertain future.

Did humanity really win the war?

Link: https://app.thestorygraph.com/books/ffb7b385-e101-45a6-94c1-5e53055621c0

4) Royal Rescue by A. Alex Logan - At age eighteen, when they become marriageable, all royal children in the Thousand Kingdoms must either go questing to rescue another royal or be hidden away to await rescue themselves. Some go the traditional route of princes rescuing princesses, but not all princes want to be rescuers...and some would rather rescue other princes.

Then there's Prince Gerald, who has no interest in getting married at all. When he refuses to choose a role as either rescuer or rescuee, his royal parents choose for him and have him magicked away to a distant tower to await a spouse.

Gerald, however, is having none of it. He recruits his guardian dragon and a would-be rescuer and soon the trio is dashing to all corners of the united kingdoms on a quest to overturn the entire system.

Link: https://app.thestorygraph.com/books/68bd9ee4-f23d-46e3-b013-f316fbd1cda9



24 july 2023

7/20/23 - I slept all of Thursday morning. Its Thursday afternoon. I'm still not great, not looking forward to tomorrow. I need to return to work. I should be ok. Hopefully.

I'm tired but can't sleep. Slept too much.

I've caught up with Sad Boyz (https://sadboyzpod.com/). I am now listening to The Golden Age of Internet Piracy by Srsly Wrong (https://srslywrong.com/). Such good stuff, its amazing how consistently knowledge, accessible and quality this podcast is.

7/21/23 - Whelp I discovered c2pa while trying to sleep. Sleep avoided! Stuff like this makes me wonder how long until the stuff I like in inaccesible.

I'm trying to find some fun, escapist media to not worry and reduce my anxiety. Its not working. I am in a deep crank state where everything annoys me. Even stuff I probably would enjoy in a better mood. I wish I could leave myself for a bit until morale improves.

Later - My mood is a bit better. But still looking for fun things to distract me. But I'm always drawn to something with a little bit of politics or educational content. I used to enjoy fiction a lot more. I wonder why this changed. Although I do want to catch up on the latest Murderbot book.

Later 2 - My library haul came in. I read 2 graphic novels: Red Rosa: A Graphic Biography of Rosa Luxemburg by Kate Evans and Covid Chronicles. Honestly some heavy stuff that ripped my heart out. Dr. Luxemburg is such an interesting person, basically writing about globalization 50 years before the term is coined. And now I'm looking into her writings.

7/22/23 - Finally went to the asian market and got good stuff. Including cilantro and mint. Time to have rice stick noodles, duck, nuoc mam and the fresh herbs. Om nom nom.

Still cranky and a bit hurty after all that walking around.

Interesting:

Saving the Tiny Bog Turtle Could Have a Big Impact on Conservation - https://appvoices.org/2023/04/25/saving-bog-turtle/

On The Work of Sex Work with Matilda Bickers by The Final Straw Radio - https://thefinalstrawradio.noblogs.org/

My short midgnight.pub post - https://midnight.pub/posts/1483

Basic First Aid for Emergencies Zine - https://www.tangledwilderness.org/skills-series

7/23/23 - I will never have all the zines and it makes me sad. (https://antharris.co/2022/06/14/zines-1-32/)

7/24/23 - I went to the beach yesterday. Sand and seawater on my feet. I feel at peace.

Sharing:

Wild Heart Homestead - https://tickfoot.sensorstation.co/



20 july 2023

7/17/23 - I still feel awful. I didn't do much. I listened to a lot of the Sad Boyz podcast with my eyes closed. Its soft masc goodness.

7/18/23 - My head is still awful, but my body doesn't feel punched all over. Progress! I have a dr appt today. Radiology to test my bone density. This is due to medicine I am taking that could possibly thin my bone desnity.

My usb came in. I am going to put Linux Lite on it. I want a more private OS/web experience. I also want to archive websites/documents. Stuff I'm not sure will be accessible in the coming years. Wayback/Archive.org is nice, but again will it last forever?

I'm even using Tor now! But probably best on a Linux OS.

Trying to download Linux Lite for my usb. Crossing my fingers, it already failed once but I don't want to torrent.

I wonder if I should describe my entire testing linux lite saga. Its peak noob foolishness. I didn't realize the Os would not save. I'm still not sure how to accomplish this. I also activated windows bitlocker (windows is my main os currently) and was fighting with my various microsoft accounts to find the key so I could get back into windows. Which has all of my logins and some documents I want to back up.

I received a reading recommendation from grende184. I'm about halfway through it. I will probably give it another go as I don't trust my sick brain memory. But what I did get, was thoughtful and made me reflect on my own thoughts regarding folk like arts, artists, etc.

Games I played before I got sick (online twine games):

Podcasts/Videos I want to share as they are really good.



17 july 2023

Blergh. Another sick day. I feel like I'm meling, the room is spinning and want to puke. I also want thick, creamy soup my stomach won't tolerate due to lactose intolerance. The Panera broccoli cheddar or wild rice soup in a bread bowl comes to mind.

I started a new game of Avernum: Escape from the Pit. Its an old crpg that has a lot of little loot and story bits to find. Lots of killing things and getting treasure. Its and interesting, slow build of a game with different ending routes. This one feels like it is going quickly, as I understand the combat and leveling up better.

I listened to:

Anark Interview with SRSLY WRONG | Revolutionary Prefiguration - SRSLY WRONG is an overall amazing, upbeat Utopian podcast. A way to think about positive changes without ending up in a doomerist pit of desapir. This one is about preconfiguration, or small changes that build up.

Zoe Baker on Anarchism and Marxism | From Alpha to Omega Podcast

ADHD, Capitalism and Disability Activism, Written by the Solidarity Federation - I'm most interested in disability political stuff. Especially considering how mainstream liberal disability politics is about those who are more exploitable by capitalism tossing those who are less under the bus (paraphrasing from the audio). Something that isn't sustainable long term.



16 july 2023

I'm making a diary with Twine 2. Its fun to play around with the text effects.

I'm making a homepage via twine but with a text adventurey flavor. Wish me luck.

Wanted to go out, but flash flood warnings. Last weekend was like this too. Bleh. I'm better than yesterday but not 100%

I am at a point where I don't really like drawing. I spent some money on art supplies though. :/ Maybe when the weather improves so will my overall mood.

I'm really buckling down on spending going forth. I could finish paying off all my debts in a few years if I do so. I like the idea of them not hanging over my head.



15 july 2023

I'm still poking around tilde. Its simultaneously overwhelming and interesting.

I joined a discord server to learn about communism and will probably leave after I copy all of the resource links. It was an unpleasant atmosphere. Very judgemental of others while also making logical leaps.

I'm thinking of joining another one regarding anarchism. I hope its better.