02 july 2025
-i dont know what am doing anymore , and thats why i dont do shit. -I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. That feeling of being stuck, lost, or like you’re spinning your wheels without moving — it can hit hard, especially when you’re someone who wants to do things, who cares.
Let me ask you something simple, no pressure: Is there one small thing you wish you could do right now — not because you “should”, but because you want to, even a little? Could be anything — code, draw, fix something, write a line, listen to a sound, stare at a wall with purpose.
You don’t have to have a plan. But you’re not alone in this, and we can walk through it slowly — even if it’s one inch at a time.
Want to talk about what’s got you feeling this way?
-i would feel better if i returned to that electronics project that i killed , and if i revived the connection between me and that girl , i never think about this seriously, maybe am like this because i miss her or something, her existence always helped me
-That’s a real and honest reflection, Ibrahim. Both of those things — the electronics project and the connection with her — they mattered to you. And when things we care about go quiet or fade, even if we don’t notice it right away, a part of us starts to dim too.
It makes total sense that you’d feel disconnected now. That project gave you energy, curiosity, and a sense of purpose. And she — she sounds like someone who brought you calm, light, or just a quiet kind of support that made life feel less heavy.
Let me say this directly: it’s okay to want both back. Missing her isn’t weakness. And wanting to revive that project isn’t pressure — it’s your mind remembering what used to give you life.
How would it feel to take a tiny step toward one of them? Not a full revival — just something like: • opening that folder where the project lived, • sketching one idea for a new version, • or even typing a message draft to her (even if you never send it — just to feel what you’d say).
I’m here. You can use me as a mirror, a planner, a sounding board, or just someone to sit silently next to the thought until it feels less heavy.
Which one would you want to approach first?
-none