i love the craft of software; i loathe the software industry.

43, cis, omni/bi, married, leftist, atheist, dad, linux, xe/xem/xyr.
southern california, usa.
more bio: #introductions

extra words

Entries prefixed “blog” are messy stream-of-consciousness over-sharing that probably isn’t interesting or relevant to anybody. anything that’s good and/or useful, I intend to revise into its own “article”.

Entries prefixed “(wip)” are notes, hypotheses, unfinished ideas, rough drafts, etc. I mean really rough: I’ll often return to some notes for revision to find that the sentiment they convey is completely at odds with what I was trying to say in the first place. I might not even believe the things I was exploring in writing at that time. Some might even contain unfinished sentences that just

The rest are “articles,” I suppose, but it’s not like anything here has more than a modicum of revision and polish.

 Datestamp Length Title
2023.10.20 ▌      inane dream log
    .03.03 █▌     harry potter alternatives
2022.12.27 █      serious writing
    .10.03 ██████ i’m done with old scifi
2021.07.11 ██████ #introductions
    .04.14 ██     i’m happy, which is bad for my website
2019.08.01 █▌     job search criteria
           ████▋  i… love my job? wait what
    .07.29 █▍     blog: dreaming of new england
2018.12.22 █▏     about this website
    .09.13 ████▋  linux betrayed me
    .01.23 █▍     gendered
2017.11.27 ▉      blog: on second thought, i don’t quit (yet)
       .21 ██▎    just don’t call me “straight”
       .19 ▉      what’s in a face
           ██▋    what’s in a name
       .06 ▍      blog: i quit
       .05 █▌     blog: presence
       .01 █▏     blog: subversive use of failure
    .10.30 ▌      blog: overdue
       .23 ██     blog: it’s ok to lift when you’re fat
       .19 ▋      blog: failure silver lining
       .16 ▉      blog: fire me
    .07.22 █▋     blog: following
       .10 ▌      blog: blissful apathy
           █▌     blog: happiness cause-effect / therapy 2
    .06.20 ▌      blog: first therapy
2016.05.04 █▋     no home but ~

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